I heard about it many many times in metaphoric ways, mild ways, straightforward ways. The most important thing that support a marriage is to only see the good qualities of the mate. But how is it possible? If we want to grow and improve in the time we would also need to face the negative aspects and every noxious thing we indeed share! – you might reckon. We would also talk about what we don’t like of the other person, just to let him/her know: so hopefully he/she will change. Wrong.
I have seen and read about many successful couples, either in my close experience and in the outside world. They do not pay any serious attention to the negative aspects of their character but stress the beauties. Sometimes they assume playful attitudes towards blocks and catches noticed in the mate. The reason is these couple are formed by very wise people, very pure, very simple. They are intelligent and do not want to waste their energy (and time) in things that are not worthy of attention. They are also aware that by reinforcing the qualities of somebody will automatically weaken the defects, until the moment they will disappear or get transformed in some way. Seeing the good in our partner is a great exercise to regenerate continuous fuel for the relationship. It increases hope, faith, understanding, compassion, love…
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